| HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR? I can hear you asking: How is practicing yoga going to help me get over the fear of asking my boss for a raise? How will it help me deal with the anxiety of confronting a co-worker who has been slacking at work lately? Consider when you first started your yoga journey. I imagine you were much like me and started off slowly, dabbling here and there with less-intimidating poses, then building up the courage to try more challenging ones. |
Yoga has a way of influencing the rest of our lives, by increasing our self-confidence, strengthening our courage, and even pushing us beyond what we view as our “limits.” Whether we decide to go to a different yoga class or decide to move from forearm balance into a full-on scorpion pose, the point is, we take the step and we go for it.
But how is it that we are able to expand our practice in yoga, push past our fear of falling over in scorpion, but find it difficult to face our everyday fears out in the “real” world?
Perhaps, it’s the simple fact that there are other yogis around us going through the same experience as us; perhaps, it’s because we are able to say, hey, it’s just yoga. I mean, isn’t yoga meant to be practiced so that we get better, even if we falter the first hundred times?
So, what if we thought of our experiences in our lives in the same way we view our yoga practice, that falling down doesn’t mean failure, but is a way to practice and get better? What if we learned from our moments of falling down in life and didn’t actually call them failures? What if we learned to use fear as a motivator to reach our goals?
Now, that’s a concept I think we can all use.
| USING FEAR AS A MOTIVATOR Using fear as a way to motivate us to take that unknown path and to move beyond our comfort zone is something we all need to learn to embrace. And, it doesn’t have to be a tangible fear, like the spiders I mentioned earlier; it can be a fear of anything, even feelings that seem to hold you back from chasing your dreams. How many of you remember what it was like when you were younger and all you dreamed of was being a ballerina, a marine biologist, or perhaps a singer? Whatever the dream, as we grow up, our fear, often a fear of failure, puts our dreams on hold and we repeatedly end up settling for something else. |
So, how does yoga help with motivating us to overcome our fears and take action? Much in the same way yoga promotes self-love and gives us confidence, as we conquer challenging poses on the mat, we rise up to take on the challenging situations we find ourselves in, in real life.
By pushing ourselves to go further in yoga, we are training our mind to think the same way off the mat. We are telling ourselves that we can accomplish things despite our fear; we can even learn to use that fear to help us see ourselves more clearly and what we want our end goal to be.
| THE POWER OF YOGAI feel as though it is safe to assume that if you’re reading this post you are a believer in the power of yoga, or at least you want to believe. For me, I can’t even count the ways which yoga has helped me. As a child, I was the girl with sweaty palms, a quiet demeanor, avoided all crowds, and had a preference for seclusion. After I had spent a day at school amongst friends and peers, I would go home and recharge, that is, spend some time in blissful solitude. |
Trying to explain this need to be alone and still for a moment, without the surrounding bombardment of questions from others, was something many, including my parents, didn’t quite understand.
It was then that I found yoga; or maybe, it found me? Yoga was a great way for me to have my alone time and essentially pass it off as exercise, although I am well aware that it is.
Somehow, when you’re doing your yoga practice, no one is asking you to tell them about your day; no one is asking you why you are hiding in your room or accusing you of being anti-social. Because being enthusiastic about exercise is perfectly acceptable; being an introvert or having anxiety from a social situation, isn’t.
Yoga helped me to come out of my shell and it is still what I turn to today when I need that moment to recharge, especially now that I am married and have two kids. It’s there to give me strength, to help me overcome my fear and anxieties, and it helps me break out of my introverted nature.
| PUSHING BEYOND OUR LIMITS It was through the power of yoga that it helped me make the decision to begin a new journey at a university, one where I didn’t know a soul; the same school where I made many of the friends I still have today, as well as where I met my future husband.See, as the magic of yoga took hold of me, I realised that it wasn’t simply a matter of me getting some alone time, or getting in some exercise; I realised it was changing me as a person. It helped me to push past my limits, and I wasn’t going to settle for being someone who just watched life pass me by; I knew I had to start living my life. I knew I had to overcome my fears. |
So, if you want to know how to overcome fear, all you need to do is simply remind yourself that fear is what prevents us from becoming more than we already are.
Is it scary to step outside of our comfort zone? You better believe it. But if we don’t, we hold ourselves back, back from new experiences, back from expressing our true selves, and back from doing what we love.
Transforming fear into freedom is exactly how we should look at it; by embracing our fears we push past them and reach the other side, the side that lets us be exactly who we were meant to be.
Does this mean that we won’t be afraid anymore? No, it doesn’t. But remember, we never really stop being afraid, we just learn to live our lives, despite our fears. Often, what we are most afraid of is the Universe’s way of telling us to push forward; that we are on the right path.
I may never watch scary movies, and spiders may still always give me the heebie-jeebies, but I do know that without yoga, my life would not be the same as it today. I would not be the same. I would be trapped in a prison with fear as my warden.
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